Quarrels are inevitable in every family. In this case, it is very important not to conceal evil, but to go to reconciliation with your half. Portal "Women's opinion" interested in the question of who in the family takes the first step to settle the conflict and conducted a social survey on the topic: "After quarreling with her husband, who is the first to reconcile?"
38.1% of women surveyed responded: “Either I or my husband is equal” and thus proved that their family is built on mutual respect and trust that differences are difficult for each spouse, so they don’t find out who is to blame, but try to compromise. As one of the survey participants said: "The main thing is for one to make a half-step towards the other and it is already possible to make peace."
25.6% of Russians admitted that they, the women, were the first to go to reconciliation. “More often - I,” was the answer. Well, it is quite logical, after all the wives, not the husbands, have always been the keepers of the home. “I can’t be angry for a long time, I leave quickly,” said the women and added: “If I lost my temper from scratch, then I go to reconciliation first.”
20% of the ladies assured that more often this is still done by the husband. Apparently, the man constantly turns out to be the cause of contention, and, feeling his guilt, tries to settle the conflict. The explanations of this category of respondents were as follows: "If there is a clear cant for the husband, he apologizes himself, though not immediately" or "If the husband is not right, then I will not give up, and I will never go to reconciliation, of course."
9.5% of women answered: "Always - me." Probably, in these families, husbands are so ambitious or spoiled by their wives, that the latter in any case have to ask for forgiveness.
6.8% of respondents said that their husbands are always the first to reconcile. These wives were able to create such a family relationship that husbands only consider themselves guilty. "It happens, I take offense at him and do not speak, but he always comes up first," said the ladies. Such behavior on the part of a man proves his boundless love and devotion to his wife.
In conclusion, we can say only one thing: whoever is to blame for the quarrels, neither of the parties wants to prolong the conflict and seeks early reconciliation.
4470 people took part in the survey. Age from 20 to 45 years. From 119 cities of Russia.
