The Internet has firmly entered the life of modern man. With it, you can quickly find the information you need, while maintaining your anonymity. The opportunity to "encrypt" themselves in the expanses of the World Wide Web is actively used by male representatives. Many of them give themselves innocent fun in the form of a virtual flirtation, which ruffles nerves and excites emotions.
At first glance, the situation may seem harmless. But as practice shows, it is this man’s prank that subsequently becomes a stumbling block in personal relationships. Virtual flirting so young people that they begin to devote their free time to chatting on chat rooms, forums and dating sites. And for each question and reproach from the wife, the spouse irritably asks him not to disturb.
Reasons for virtual dating?
It is unpleasant to realize that your partner in life devotes most of its time to an unknown woman whom he found in the virtual spaces of the Internet. He knows about her a minimum of information, but at the same time calls her affectionate words, shares his experiences and problems. Why are young people so addicted to virtual flirting, replacing them with real communication with his wife?
There may be several reasons.
- He is looking for a mistress.
- Thus, he wants to escape from life's difficulties and talk about his problems, anxieties, which he does not want to pronounce with his wife.
- He wants to better understand women's psychology through virtual flirting.
- He communicates with a long-time friend or his former partner.
Such correspondence poses a certain danger to family relationships. Frequent virtual intimate conversations can easily grow into a meeting in reality. This significantly increases the risk of physical betrayal.
How to respond to a virtual flirt husband?
Any treachery on the part of a man, physical or spiritual, hurts the heart equally. But before you make a scandal to your husband, you need to make sure that such a flirt is true. Through the history of the browser or with the help of a special program, you can track which sites your partner visits and what information he views there.
If the spouse’s virtual flirt is confirmed, the next step is to find out the reason for its birth. Psychologists say:
"a man begins to look for a flirt on the Internet if he has problems that he cannot solve in any way."
More often, such difficulties arise in personal relationships. Therefore, a woman needs to analyze the emotional situation in the house, her behavior and her husband in a relationship. Partner should be brought into a frank conversation to find out what worries him, cares or does not suit his personal life. It must be remembered that only problems that are spoken aloud are solved quickly.
Sometimes personal problems are so hidden in nature that only an experienced specialist, a family psychologist, can sort them out.
In any situation, prolonged virtual flirting can not be overlooked. Patience, feminine wisdom and perseverance in the search for causes, will help to return live communication and real emotions in a relationship.
Text: Svetlana Ahi
