Looking for a stable, high-quality, long-term relationship? Relationships that bring maximum happiness and minimum discomfort? Do you think that it’s almost impossible to find good, honest and loyal partners? Then check out these 10 rules that you can adopt for yourself, so as not to make a mistake in choosing.
1. Avoid low self-esteem partners
Do not let yourself be fooled and do not give in to pity, looking into these imploring "puppy" eyes. Do not believe his needs for emotional and material support, and also beware of annoying behavior and excessive obsession. And, of course, do not take this for signs of love. Find a confident person with healthy self-esteem. If he knows how to experience these feelings for himself, he will also experience them in relation to you.
2. Make sure you both strive for the same goals in your relationship
If you want a long-term, loyal relationship that will lead to the creation of a strong family, do not immediately act frivolously and agree to everything, thinking that it will help you. Go and have fun if you want, but don't expect sex on a first date to be a guarantee of success.
3. Make sure you and your partner share the same values in your relationship and family
When you are in love, you tend to just live in the present moment and enjoy the butterflies in your stomach. But when it comes to more serious aspects, you probably will want to know what your chosen one thinks about those issues that will determine the quality of your life. Does he value your relationship? Does he have close friends? Does he communicate with parents / brothers and sisters / relatives? These are very telling tips for you.
4. Strive for a relationship in which both partners participate in each other’s lives.
This means that honesty and understanding are at the heart of a relationship. Although both partners retain their individuality, their hobbies, interests and friends, they work to involve their chosen one in almost all aspects of their lives. They have no secrets or "forbidden" activities with friends.
5. Never tolerate toxic behavior.
Whether it is broken promises, insults, deception, disrespect or any toxic actions - all this is absolutely unacceptable. Women who know and know how to say no, set their boundaries and leave immediately when they notice such signals.
6. You should feel happy and relaxed next to "your" person
You do not need to be careful and try to be quieter than water and below the grass. You do not need to strain and think about each of your phrases, lest your chosen one explode or create something unpredictable. As soon as you notice that you are excessively delicate and literally walk on tiptoe in front of him - know, this is not your person.
7. You must behave openly and sincerely
Wise women will never cheat, wanting a partner to read their thoughts and guess what they need, like a real psychic. They declare their needs and desires and are excellent at standing up for themselves. In addition, they are open to listen to their chosen one.
8. Do not let your chosen one play games with you
"Your" person will always immediately reply to the message or call them back; otherwise, it means that he is really busy, and will answer you later. You should not be allowed to play games with you like "wait for an hour, let it torment you."
9. Compromise is good, but not in all situations
Do not look at least for someone, just not to be alone and fill some kind of void. If you are still without a couple, then you have not yet found a suitable partner. Do not start dating someone who just paid attention to you, and moreover, do not agree to all its conditions.
10. Make sure the seriousness and responsibility of the chosen one
Do not turn a blind eye to the unpleasant behavioral patterns of your partner. How much is your relationship a priority for him? Does he like to disappear for a long time without giving news of himself? Does he have any secrets and secrets from you? In other words, be prudent and do not take the words of your chosen one about love at face value. In this case, his actions and actions are much more eloquent than any words.
